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The Difference Between Character and Reputation

People often use the words character and reputation as though they mean the same thing. They do not. Character is who you are. Reputation is who other people believe you are. Sometimes the two are perfectly aligned. Sometimes they are worlds apart. T…
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The Most Valuable Thing You Can Say Is "I Don't Know."

From an early age, many of us are taught that successful people always have the answers. Students are rewarded for knowing the correct response. Professionals are expected to solve problems quickly. Leaders are often praised for being decisive. Over…
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Why Competence Is Quiet

One of the greatest misconceptions about success is that the most competent person is usually the one speaking the most. In my experience, the opposite is often true. After more than twenty-five years as both a lawyer and professor, I have noticed th…
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After Twenty-Five Years as a Lawyer and Professor, I've Learned Why Good People Get Themselves Into Trouble

After practicing law and teaching for more than twenty-five years, one lesson has become impossible to ignore: most people do not get themselves into trouble because they are dishonest, malicious, or incompetent. More often, they get themselves into…
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The 10 Things You Should Never Post on Social Media (And Why They Matter More Than You Think)

Many people think of social media as a place to share moments, opinions, and experiences. Investigators, employers, admissions committees, licensing boards, and opposing attorneys often see something very different. They see evidence. Every post cont…
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The Difference Between Information and Understanding

We live in an age of unlimited information. Within seconds, we can search the internet, read research studies, watch lectures from leading universities, analyze data, and access more information than previous generations could have accumulated in a l…
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The Art of Being Wrong

Few experiences are more uncomfortable than discovering that we were wrong. Whether the issue is a disagreement with a colleague, a university investigation, a business decision, or an argument with a family member, most of us instinctively defend ou…
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The Stories We Tell Ourselves Are Often the Biggest Obstacle to the Truth

Imagine that two people witness the same conversation. One leaves believing the discussion was supportive and constructive. The other walks away convinced it was critical and dismissive. Neither person is lying. Neither is necessarily acting in bad f…
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The Psychology of Digging Yourself Into a Hole

One of the most fascinating aspects of human psychology is that intelligent people often make their biggest mistakes not when they first err, but when they refuse to stop digging. Almost everyone has experienced this phenomenon. A small mistake becom…
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The Biggest Mistake People Make After Being Falsely Accused

Few experiences are more unsettling than being falsely accused. Whether the allegation involves workplace misconduct, academic dishonesty, professional misconduct, or criminal behavior, the emotional impact is often immediate. People feel shocked, an…
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