Five Things That Quietly Destroy Your Reputation

Most people believe reputations are destroyed by dramatic events. A public scandal. A criminal conviction. A viral social media post. A lawsuit. While those events can certainly damage a person’s standing, they are surprisingly uncommon. In my…
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Five Questions Every Great Decision-Maker Asks

Some people consistently make good decisions. They are not necessarily the smartest people in the room. They do not always possess the most experience or the highest credentials. Yet, when faced with uncertainty, conflict, or difficult choices, they…
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The 5 Decisions That Can Change Your Life (Without You Realizing It)

Most people can identify what they believe were the biggest decisions of their lives. Choosing a career. Getting married. Starting a business. Buying a home. Accepting—or declining—a job offer. Those decisions are certainly important. But after m…
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Credibility Is Built in Private and Tested in Public

Most people believe credibility is established during the moments that matter most: the difficult interview, the disciplinary hearing, the courtroom, the high-stakes meeting, or the public controversy. Those moments certainly reveal credibility, but…
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The Best Decision Is Usually the One You Make Before You Need To

People often assume that the most important decisions are made during moments of crisis. The disciplinary hearing. The university investigation. The lawsuit. The difficult meeting with Human Resources. The interview with an investigator. Those moment…
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The Most Convincing People Are Usually the Least Desperate

There is a common assumption that the most persuasive people are those who argue the hardest. They speak the longest. They answer every objection. They insist they are right. They send another email after the meeting. Then another. Then one more R…
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The Case You Think You're Making Is Probably Not the Case They're Hearing

One of the most important lessons I have learned after more than twenty-five years representing students, faculty members, researchers, physicians, and professionals is this: The case you believe you are making is often very different from the case t…
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The Questions Investigators Never Ask—But Always Answer

When people prepare for an investigation, they usually focus on the questions they expect to hear. “Where were you?” “Did you send this email?” “What happened during the meeting?” “Why did you make that decis…
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Why Good Evidence Sometimes Loses

One of the most common misconceptions about investigations is that the side with the strongest evidence always wins. In an ideal world, that would be true. In reality, it often is not. After representing students, faculty members, researchers, physic…
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The Difference Between Character and Reputation

People often use the words character and reputation as though they mean the same thing. They do not. Character is who you are. Reputation is who other people believe you are. Sometimes the two are perfectly aligned. Sometimes they are worlds apart. T…
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